Reader Question:

Hi David,

I’m 60 years of age, very healthier, extremely active, and a rather good lady. I’d a really cold wedding dating for over 60s over 30 years. We signed up with whenever I separated, had a few dates (they certainly were terrible), then one popped upwards. We have dated him don and doff for 2 many years. He explained he really likes myself, but the guy vanishes constantly. I see him for two days, after which he’s eliminated for two to three days. He was hitched for three decades possesses three kiddies (like me) and states he has dedication problems and is also seeing a therapist about any of it. His partner cheated on him in which he has medicine and liquor dilemmas.

Can I think about this guy getting harmful? If the guy contacts me once again (that I suspect he will), should I tell him to not get in touch with myself anymore, or can I merely tell him i love becoming with him but are leaving my solutions ready to accept date others?

-Nancy (California)

David Wygant’s Answer:

Should you consider this guy toxic?  No.

I would think about him to get a booty call.

Which is all he or she is.  He’s a booty phone call.

He doesn’t want to make.  He is coming up with quite a few excuses, and yet the guy loves to appear more than and trick about.

Whenever a person does that, all he is carrying out is using you as a sexual partner.

Confront him upon it if you like, but a person like him will make upwards some form of story to not be cut off intimately.

Therefore move ahead and  discover someone that warrants you.

Enough time you have been throwing away considering him and being with him is time you will be fulfilling a fresh guy.

Take pleasure in the procedure!


By Danny